There is probably no adult man who would not like to discover his inner Casanova. As such, when you are out on a night with your buddies to have a couple of drinks, it is but natural to get into a situation when you will be tempted to use your skills in meeting a member of the opposite sex.
The first question that you need to ask is where you would like to go. Naturally, most casual encounters with the opposite sex would occur in bars and clubs. Both genders hang out here to specifically mingle and practice their dating skills. For men, it’s all a matter of discover the inner Lothario or Casanova in you. After scoping out the place during a busy weekend – either alone or with a few of your buddies, the second skill that you need to work on is to look for cues on whether or not a woman’s interested.
Let’s say that you have already gone through the initial introductions. You are feeling like the ultimate Casanova as you nurse your bottle of beer while she is sipping her margarita. How can you tell if she is interested in dating you or not? The first thing that you need to work on is leaving a lasting impression.
Afterwards, that is the time that you can sharpen even more your dating skills by putting on the charm. You wouldn’t want a hot woman walking the other direction once she sees you approaching. This is precisely the reason why it pays to learn all about how you can ‘listen’ to a woman’s body language.
Unleashing Your Casanova Techniques on Understanding her Body Language
So you already know the importance of listening to her body language. If you have zero clue about how you can go about doing this, take a look at the following list. Here are the body language-reading skills that every man embroiled in the dating scene should master.
She is leaning towards you when trying to make a point. Being the ’superior’ communicators that they are, you will see that a woman is interested when she leans or moves towards you when trying to make a point. Let’s say that introductions have already been dispensed with and you are already on the getting-to-know you stage. Even if it is not that loud in the bar and she leans over you during your conversation, that is definitely a good sign.
She establishes eye contact. Another sign that you have managed to capture a woman’s attention is when she establishes eye contact and holds your gaze for more than five seconds. That is a sure sign that she would agree to dating you – and if you are lucky enough – she might even invite you to her place by the end of the night.
Initiating physical contact and responding positively to your flirtations. It is not called the dating game for nothing. When a woman initiates physical contact and responds positively to your flirtations, that is as good a sign as any that she is interested. This is especially true when she laughs at your not-so-funny jokes.
As you can see, it is quite easy to bring out the Casanova in you and get an invitation for a next day or even spending that same night at her or your place. Simply by making sure that you are correctly reading her body language, you will again be a master of the dating scene and take the next step after meeting a good-looking woman – be it a second date, a nightcap or spending an entire night together if you are lucky.
George Andrews wrote and co-wrote numerous dating and relationship articles on the web. Greatly improve your success rate with women and learn about his recommended tips, tricks and techniques. Subscribe to his blog and check out his website now!
Sphere: Related Content